Letting go is necessary to making the Law of Attraction work.
The Law of Attraction isn’t just a bunch of steps that you follow. It isn’t thinking positively and visualizing 10 minutes a day. It isn’t writing affirmations 15 times each every day.
The Law of Attraction is a way of life…and letting go is a part of it.
Where Most People Struggle with Letting Go
Many people jump into the Law of Attraction and fully commit to using it…for a few days. They expect to see results instantly.
However within a week, they start thinking negatively, wondering why they aren’t seeing results, wondering what they’re doing wrong… Feelings of desperation, hopelessness, doubt and fear creep in.
They’ll go back and try some more with the Law of Attraction, alternating between hoping to see results and moments of negativity, fear, and doubt.
They’re so attached to their desire that they forget to let go.
What is Letting Go?
Letting go is being detached from the outcome.
Letting go isn’t that you stop asking.
Letting go is getting out of your own way and allowing the Law of Attraction to bring you your desire. You release all emotional attachments, negative thoughts, and tension in your body. You are content with your life and know that your desire is coming to you.
How to Let Go
Letting go is unlearning what you’ve learned since childhood. It’s no longer worrying about your family, your job, your house, your relationship, your health, and everything else in your life.
Everything in your life that you want to change, everywhere you think you need to compete with others, everywhere you think you need to be the best, stop worrying about it.
The more you worry about them, the more problems you attract.
When you release all worry and trust in the Universe (or Source or God, if you prefer), you will find true abundance, joy, health, love, success, and prosperity. You will achieve vibrational alignment with your desires.
Letting go involves changing how you think. Instead of going through life focused on the physical world around you, you focus on your spirit.
You release all control and remain open to possibilities. You allow things to happen in your life easily and naturally.
Using Letting Go in Your Daily Law of Attraction Routine
I want to share with you a question I received from someone on using letting go with visualization. I think you’ll find that it addresses many common problems with and misunderstandings about how letting go works.
Question: “I know the LOA says when you want to manifest a specific person you have to be willing to lose them – you have to let go and be ok with not being with them in order to manifest the relationship you want. It also says that you should visualize the relationship you want with this person as if you already have it. How can one do both? How can I imagine being in a relationship with this person but let them go and be ok with not the being with them at the same time?”
My Answer: Visualization and letting go are two entirely different things.
Visualization activates the Law of Attraction, sending a powerful message about what you want to manifest. After you do your visualization, you go about your day normally. You act as if your life is as you visualized. You don’t try to control the outcome. You don’t worry about how it’s going to happen, what he is or isn’t doing, whether the Law of Attraction is working, etc. You release all fear and doubt. You just trust that everything is okay and whatever happens will be okay too. This is letting go. It’s being detached from the outcome. It isn’t that you stop asking.
When you let go, you think about your desire happily, but you don’t worry about it manifesting. If you are worried, you’re focused on it not happening, which is sending a powerful message to the Universe to create the situation you’re worried about.
How will Letting Go Work for You?
If you’ve followed every step of the Law of Attraction and you still haven’t manifest your desire…
If you’ve tried thinking positively and the Law of Attraction still isn’t working…
If you believe your desire will manifest and you’re just not seeing it happen…
Let go. Positive change is on its way.