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WISDOM ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑโ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ

A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.โ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ

SIGNS OF MENTAL EMOTIONAL ABUSE

They don’t have to hit or shove you to be abusive.๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ

Abuse can consist of unbearable words, mean comments, false accusations, criticisms, nitpicking, bullying, intimidation, threats, disrespect, attempts to silence you, stonewalling, ignoring, dismissing you, raging, name-calling, laughing at you or your emotions, not listening, not allowing you to talk, shutting you down, shutting conversations down, excluding you or trying to make you feel left out or unimportant, controlling you, telling you how to be or how to feel, minimizing or ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿƒโ˜˜๏ธ

Trivializing you or your feelings, shaming your emotions, throwing blame and shame, treating you like a child, using double standards and being a hypocrite, projecting on you, manipulating, gossiping, using gossip and hearsay against you, making judgments, exploiting you โ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ

Capitalizing on perceived weaknesses, flaws and insecurities, ignoring and violating your boundaries, meddling and interfering in your business (control), giving unsolicited advice and unwanted negative opinions ๐ŸŒฟ๐Ÿƒโ˜˜๏ธโ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ๐ŸŒฑ

Making attacks on your self-esteem, using you as a scapegoat or emotional punching bag, being aggressive or passive-aggressive, giving you orders, and telling you what to accomplish โ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ

Acting like an authority or dictator, showing arrogance, being condescending, treating you as inferior, acting superior to you, acting self righteous or sanctimonious, gaslighting, denying their actions or of hurting you, never taking accountability or making apologies, shows no remorse ๐Ÿƒโ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ

Lacks empathy, provokes negative emotions by being rude or cruel, tries to pit and divide you with or cause chaos between you and your loved ones or support system, blames you for walking away or the demise of the relationship or for using boundaries, having a sense of entitlement, getting angry for standing up for yourself, expects you to put up with and tolerate their behaviors, expects you to “comply” with them and whatever they say, and playing the victim after treating you badly, hurting you and being disrespectful.โ˜˜๏ธ๐Ÿƒ๐ŸŒฟ๐ŸŒฑ

Hey, you reading this if you are the perpetrator you must change before you escalate and find yourself all solitary confinement on earth ๐ŸŒ

@peacewriter51

By Peace Truth

Life is like a bunch of roses. Some sparkle like raindrops. Some fade when there's no sun. Some just fade away in time. Some dance in many colors. Some drop with hanging wings. Some make you fall in love. The beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Life you can be sure of, you will not get out ALIVE.(sorry about that)