You ruin your life by choosing the wrong person.
What is it with our need to fast-track relationships?
Why are we so enamored with the idea of first becoming somebody’s rather than some bodies?
Trust me when I say that a love bred out of convenience, a love that blossoms from the need to sleep beside someone, a love that caters to our need for attention rather than passion, is a love that will not inspire you at 6 am when you roll over and embrace it.
Strive to discover foundational love, the kind of relationship that motivates you to be a better man or woman, the type of intimacy that is rare rather than right there.
“But I don’t want to be alone,” we often exclaim.
Be alone. Eat alone, take yourself on dates, and sleep alone.
In the midst of this, you will learn about yourself. You will grow, you will figure out what inspires you, you will curate your dreams, your own beliefs, and your stunning clarity, and when you do meet the person who makes your cells dance, you will be sure of it because you are sure of yourself.
Could you wait for it? Please, I urge you to wait for it, to fight for it, to make an effort for it if you have already found it because it is the most beautiful thing your heart will experience.