Victims ✨

Not all traumas were caused by mistakes that require a lesson to avoid repeating them. ✨

In fact,
most serious traumas weren’t mistakes on the part of the individual.✨

They weren’t events summoned by their unconscious or their karma to teach them something they needed to learn. ✨

They were victimised.✨

They were attacks. ✨

So, let’s stop telling trauma survivors that they must learn a lesson from their experiences. ✨

That’s just another form of gaslighting. ✨

Sometimes there is no lesson.

Sometimes,
the most they can do is heal. ✨

Let’s support that. ✨