Remember you’re the other woman 👠

THE OTHER WOMAN

If you’re unfortunate enough to fall in love with a married man, turn and run the other way. To continue down the path ahead is to walk willingly onto a dark path composed of little more than depression, heartbreak and futility. The longer you hesitate, the person are you if you do, it says a lot about a woman’s character if she doesn’t care who she damages on her path of destruction. 😔

Realize, even though he might say but may have become routine. Stolen moments with you provide elements of thrill and danger. Most men often become another person while having an affair, drinking, drugs etc, things that he would never do in his normal life. Statistics have proven that over 90% of married men who have affairs, regardless of how long harder it will be to move on. He may promise to be with you when the children are grown, when his parents have passed on, or when his wife is strong enough to be alone but after all, he’s a cheater and he’s already lying to his wife. 😔

How can you possibly believe his promises, every thing he has ever said to you is most likely a lie. This doesn’t just affect you, what if he has children? Cheating has a ripple effect and this in turn can cause a lot of damage and heartache for not just you, but also his wife and her trust in men altogether and his children, the older they are, the more damage is done. Do you want to put an entire family through all of that, what kind of he is going to leave his wife… he never will. 😔

He probably wants to have his cake and eat it too, and unless you put an end to it, he isn’t going anywhere. Why would he leave his happy home if he has you on the side willing to participate in his game To him, it’s a fling, an interlude in a marriage which is comfortable, the affair is, do not leave their marriages. In the end you are nothing more than used and damaged goods.😔