What Makes Us Happy

What Makes Us Happy


There is an ever-growing body of knowledge about nature and the causes of happiness.

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For one thing, happiness is a feeling, not a circumstance.

Achievement is more than just fun or pleasure. It’s a more durable sense of well-being.


Our happiness depends not on what happens to us, but on what happens in us.

In other words, it’s the way we choose to think about our lives.

Abe Lincoln said, “People are generally about as happy as they’re willing to be.”

A Buddhist proverb tells us that pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.


So, what are the most common attributes of happy people?

Well, it’s not money, fame, or good looks.

It’s not even intelligence or talent.

No, the two most important factors are gratitude and rewarding personal relationships.


The formula is simple: count your blessings and enjoy your family and friends.


Sadly, simple is not always easy.


People whose instincts produce a gloomy outlook and pessimism need to re-train their minds.

It’s one thing to say happiness is not getting what you want but wanting what you get; it’s quite another to be satisfied with what we have.


For many people, it takes discipline and practice to think positively.


Sometimes it’s just a matter of changing one’s perspective, choosing to see and appreciate the silver lining, the half-full glass.

In other cases, what’s required is refusing to dwell on pain, disappointment, or envy, and instead force one’s mind toward good thoughts, including all the things we should be grateful for.


Interestingly, the ability to maintain a positive attitude is also important in forming and sustaining meaningful relationships – seeing and bringing out the decent.

WISDOM

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel

One thought on “What Makes Us Happy

  1. The love of God found in people we meet upon our path of life and those very very special people who fill your world with love and ask for nothing in return say that they do the will of God Amen 🙏’s for those ones in pain on this day Shalom 💫

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