Categories
wisdom

Emotions ~

Our abdomen can be the wonderful monitor of our emotional health, and the truth can always be found there.

So often, emotions that we long to express get stored in our bodies instead. The space where this most often happens is in our tummies. Rather than telling people, or even ourselves, the way we truly feel, we may stuff our true feelings deep inside of us, where they take up space until we are ready to let them go. Stuffing our feelings in our midsections may feel like the “safe” response since we then don’t have to deal with our emotions. Yet, doing so can be harmful to our emotional well-being and physical health.

One way to connect with and release your emotions is to do a focused exercise with your stomach area. Take a moment to center yourself with some deep breathing and quiet meditation, relaxing your body fully and turning off the chatter in your brain. With your right hand on your stomach, tell yourself three times: “Please reveal to me my true emotions.” Listen for the answers. Repeat the exercise as many times as you would like, allowing yourself to drop deeper into your body each time. Notice any physical response in the stomach area, whether you have a warm, relaxed feeling in the middle of your body or if you feel tight knots in response to any emotions that do come up. You may even want to write down any answers that come to you. Remember that the body doesn’t lie.

Releasing our pent-up feelings from our midsections can prevent disease and allow us to live more authentic and expressive lives. Sometimes, if too much emotional energy builds up inside of us, a blowout can result in that can cause discomfort. You can help to alleviate this compression by doing the same exercise and adding sound to your emotional release. The more guttural the sounds released through your mouth, the more emotions you are likely letting go of. Releasing your emotions from your belly doesn’t have to be painful and hard; rather, it can be organic and effortless. It’s important not to judge whatever comes up for you. We tend to stuff our feelings in our bellies when we are ashamed of them or not ready to express them. There is nothing wrong with having feelings, whatever they may be. You can’t help your feelings; if anything, you can help yourself by acknowledging the truth of your emotions so you can set yourself free.

Categories
wisdom

This is your life use it wisely ~

We often think of failure as the inability to accomplish a certain objective. We give it our best shot and the results are less than favorable. We’ve failed.

Ah, but does that have to be the end of the story? No! We can consider it a failure ONLY if we stop trying after we experience the less than favorable result.

If we keep working at it, we might turn a “failure” into a success!

Do yourself a favor and change your definition of failure right now. Here is your new definition of failure:

Not having a plan, not working a plan, and giving up too soon.

Think of any great achievement in history, and you can be certain that the achiever had to attempt it more than once – sometimes hundreds of times!

If you’ve “failed” at anything in the past, be honest with yourself: how many times did you try? Did you give it a halfhearted effort and then give up when it seemed too hard? Did you let yourself become intimidated by challenges, or disempowered by negative comments from friends and colleagues?

Though you may believe that it was out of your hands, it’s important to understand something:

You made a choice to fail.

You gave up. You stopped trying. It doesn’t matter what the reasons were, even though they may have seemed perfectly logical at the time. The fact is, you allowed external conditions to erode your motivation and determination, and you threw in the towel.

You may resist this idea because let’s face it; it’s not a comfortable thing to hear. But this painful little insight comes with some good news!

If you made the choice to fail, you can also make the choice to succeed.

Whether you decide to pick up an old dream and dust it off or choose an exciting new path to travel, the outcome is within your control!

With the right attitude, focused action steps and a solemn vow to never give up, success will be yours.

Don’t approach your goals with an attitude of “try,” only an attitude of DO! That little gem by the fictional character of Yoda actually holds a tremendous amount of wisdom.

Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity.

“Trying” means you are not going to give it your all. It means you will keep going until the going gets too tough. It means you are giving yourself an out in case you grow weary of the battle. It means you are giving yourself permission to surrender to mediocrity.

“Doing” means that failure is not an option. It implies that you vow to give every ounce of blood, sweat, and tears you have available because you believe in your dreams that much. It means that you cannot and will not accept defeat because the stakes are too high. It means that you are willing to work as long and as hard as necessary to achieve the outcome you desire, even if it takes years.

This is your life and you must decide that there is no going back, no giving up, no giving in – NO MATTER WHAT!

J.Jay Samuel Davis ~ America
Categories
wisdom

Sensibility~

Connecting with essential truth and knowing oneself is the only way.

Surrender is the path to freedom through our unique authenticity. Through surrender, you may experience the flow of life not through the narrow lens of the mind, but the vast refuge of the heart.

Nothing else is needed – it has always been for, about, and within you. Freedom is the realization that it is sufficient to simply be a human being!

Categories
wisdom

NO! 💥

Saying No to somebody when we’re used to saying Yes, can be challenging as we fear being rejected.


Many of us, from childhood on, are taught that saying yes is right and saying no is wrong.

We learn that acceding to demands allows us to avoid conflict and criticism, please people, earn praise, and prove that we care for the important people in our lives. Yet the right to say no is indelibly intertwined with the ability to make choices.

When we sense we are limited in our options, compelled to say yes even when doing so is not in our interests, we are effectively robbed of our ability to choose.

Growing out of this tendency to say yes even when we desperately want to say no can be challenging because we suspect that others will reject us for our assertiveness.

But the reward we receive upon facing this challenge is true freedom of choice.

When others ask you to take on work or do favors, consider their requests carefully. If you feel pressed to say yes, consider whether you are acquiescing out of a desire for approval or to stave off disapproval.

Remind yourself often that the ability to say no is an important aspect of well-being, as it is an indication that you understand the true value of your energy, talents, and time.

As you learn to articulate your personal power by saying no, you may feel compelled to explore the myriad consequences of the word by responding negatively to many or most of the requests put to you.

The word “no” may even become your default response for some time. When you see that life moves forward without interruption, however, you will grow more comfortable saying no and will resume making decisions from a point of balance.

There is nothing inherently wrong with acceding to the requests others make of you, provided these requests do not infringe upon your health or your happiness.

Keep in mind that it is only when you feel you have the legitimate right to say no that you can say yes with utmost certainty, sincerity, and enthusiasm.

While saying yes almost always has a cost, you can feel good about offering your agreement when your reasons for doing so are rooted in your individual values and your appreciation for the appeal before you.

Categories
wisdom

Truth ~

Connecting with essential truth and knowing oneself is the only way.

Surrender is the path to freedom through our unique authenticity.

Through surrender, you may experience the flow of life not through the narrow lens of the mind, but the vast refuge of the heart.

Nothing else is needed – it has always been for, about and within you.

Freedom is the realization that it is sufficient to simply be a human being!

Categories
wisdom

Attitude ~

Tell the people in your life how much they mean to you. Change the atmosphere and attitude in your home by encouraging your spouse and your children. It’s easy to point out what’s wrong. People will not always live up to our expectations. We all have shortcomings. Instead, let’s begin to point out what is right and what the other person does well. Bring value into the lives of those around you by noticing them doing things right!

Categories
wisdom

Wisdom ~

Overthinking is detrimental to a person’s happiness…

And almost never makes a situation turn out any better than it would have otherwise

It also leads to indecisiveness…

Which can prevent a person from taking action when action is needed the most

Not everything in the world is meant to be understood…

And not everything has an answer

People who are overthinkers have a tendency to try and find the underlying cause and effect behind everything that happens

Unfortunately

We live in a complex world…

Where cause and effect is often times a near-endless web

Trying to unravel this web and follow every line of cause and effect will only lead to heartache

Just accept that not everything has an answer

Sometimes things just happen…

Either for no reason at all or for reasons so complex and unrelated that trying to figure them out is pointless

But whatever it is that you overthinking about…

Don’t let it ruin your tomorrows as they can turn out
perfect and not what you thought may arise

Categories
wisdom

God needs you to understand ~

On this day of your life, I believe God wants you to know …… that the possibility of making an error should never, ever stop you from doing anything.

Don’t ever be afraid of “not getting it right.” In truth,there is no “right” way of doing anything…there is only the way you are doing it. So go ahead. Do it. Nothing wonderful has ever been accomplished by anyone who was worried sick about it not beingwonderful.

Advertisements
Categories
wisdom

Hello friends